Christina Rossetti’s own experiences with failed relationships deeply inform the emotional tone of 'An Apple Gathering ' - Her broken engagement to James Collinson, a fellow member of the Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood, ended due to religious differences - Rossetti’s devout Anglo-Catholicism clashed with his conversion to Catholicism - Later, she also declined marriage proposals from Charles Cayley, a linguist and friend, due again to religious incompatibility - These personal sacrifices are echoed in the poem’s themes of romantic loss, regret, and spiritual steadfastness - The narrator’s mourning of a lost connection and isolation from society may reflect Rossetti’s own emotional reckonings, as she chose principle over passion, resigning herself to a life of celibacy and poetic contemplation