Phallic stage - libido focussed on genitals. Oedipus complex - boys feels sexually attracted to mother, sees father as love rival, wishes to kill father, feels guilt so takes on fathers behaviours, development of the superego. Electra complex - girls develop penis envy for what boys have, blame their mothers for it, fathers become love object, swap penis envy for a wish to have children, resolves conflict with mother development of the superego. Fixation at this stage leads to adults being narcissistic (self-absorbed) difficulty maintaining and building relationships with others.