explaining importance of physical attractiveness (1)
psychologists have wondered why physical attractivness is so important in forming relationships
evolutionary theory seems to explain it well
shackelford and lanen (1997) found people with symmetrical faces are more attractive
this is because it may be an hinest signal of genetic fitness
explaining importance of physical attractiveness (2)
people are attracted to faces with neotenous (baby face) features such as widely separated and large eyes, a delicate chin and a small nose (trigger protective/caring instinct)
McNulty et al (2008) found evidence that the initial attractiveness that brought the partners together continued to be an important feature of the relationship after marriage for several years
the halo effect
we have preconcieved ideas about personality traits attractive people must have and they are universally positive
physical attractiveness stereotypes
karen dion et al (1972) 'what is beautiful good for?'
dion found physical attractive people are consistently rated at kind, strong, socialable + successful compared to unattractive people
the belief that good looking people probably have these characteristics makes them even more attractive to us
we begin to have a self fulfilling prophecy for this
what makes people attractive?
buss' research demonstrated men place a significant importance level of physical attractiveness when choosing a mate
female appearance give cues on health + fertility
is also just as important when women choose a partner
however rely on physical attractiveness for a short-term relationship
unlike men, attractiveness is less important for long-term relationships
the 'matching hypothesis'
walster and walster (1969) claim individiuals seek romantic relationships whose social desirability roughly equals their own
when choosing a partner:
individuals asses their own 'value'
they then choose a potential partner from available candidates that would be most likely to attracted to them
'matching hypothesis' (2)
instead of going for the most attractive option, people seek out those who are most similar to themselves
this maximises the chance of success
also minimises the chance of embarrassing rejection
matching and physical attractiveness
while the matching hypothesis proposes that we match with similarly 'socially desirable' people, over time it has become synonymous with physical attractiveness alone
walster referred to these mating choices as 'realistic'
we are affected by the chances of having our affection reciprocated
in reality, people often settle for mating with someone 'in their own league'
supporting evidence for matching hypothesis
Feingold (1988) conducted a meta-analysis of 17 studies and found a significant correlation between the perceived attractiveness of actual partners, when rated by independent participants
evidence that we don't really 'match’ at all + just prefer attractive people
Walster et al. (1966) advertised a dance party for new students at the University of Minnesota
177 males and 170 females were selected from the applicants
Upon arrival, each person was rated for attractiveness and given a questionnaire to assess specific characteristics.
They were told this would help them match with an 'ideal' partner.
However, matching was completely random.
Participants were then given a questionnaire about their dates.
walster et al findings
Regardless of their own physical attractiveness, people responded more positively to physically attractive partners
Other factors, such as personality and intelligence had little to no effect.
evidence that having the matching hypothesis focus on just physical attractiveness lacks predictive validity.
Eastwick and Finkel (2008) suggest that the desire for physical attractiveness does not predict real-life partner choice.
They supported this claim using evidence from speed dating and a longitudinal follow-up.
Prior to speed dating, people showed preferences for physical attractiveness..
BUT this failed to predict the behaviour of participants during the event
Participants actual partner preferences reflected both their romantic attraction and the partner's specific characteristics
led to a less simplistic version of the theory - 'Complex Matching'
The belief that matching is much more complex that just physical attractiveness
People enter a relationship offering a number of desirable characteristics, and can 'make up for' a lack of attractiveness
This is referred to as 'Complex Matching"-
This suggests that the matching hypothesis is not based on attractiveness alone.