Competitiveness and the basic hostility it spawns result in feelings of isolation.
Horney hypothesized that a difficult childhood is primarily responsible for neurotic needs.
• Lack of genuine warmth and affection from parents results in various traumatic events, such as sexual abuse, beatings, open rejection, or pervasive neglect, that leave impressions on a child’s future development
Children need to experience both genuine love and healthy discipline. Such conditions provide them with feelings of safety and satisfaction
The child develops feelings of basic hostility toward the parents. Repressed hostility leads to basic anxiety―profound feelings of insecurity and a vague sense of apprehension.
Protective Devices. 1. Affection: Purchase love with self-effacing compliance, material goods, or sexual favors
2. Submissiveness: Submit oneself either to people or institutions
3. Strive for power (to dominate others), prestige (to humiliate others), and possession (to deprive others)
4. Withdrawal: Independence or emotional detachment from others
Compulsion is the salient characteristic of all neurotic drives
Toward people - compulsive personality, neurotic: helplessness. normal: friendly loving
Against people - aggressive personality, neurotic: hostility, exploitation and power. normal: abiltity to survive in a competent environment
Away from people - detached personality, neurotic: isolation. normal: autonomous and serene
I.C. 1. Idealized self-image: An attempt to solve conflicts by painting a godlike picture of oneself
I.C 1 -
Neurotic Search for Glory: Comprehensive drive toward actualizing the ideal self.
Need for perfection: “Tyranny of the should”
b) Neurotic ambition: Compulsive drive toward superiority
c) Drive toward vindictive triumph: To put others to shame and defeat through one’s success
2. Neurotic Claims: False sense of entitlement
3.Neurotic Pride: False pride
2. Self-Hatred occurs when neurotics realize that their real self does not match the insatiable demands of their idealized se