•Police and prosecutors may be less likely to record, investigate and prosecute domestic violence cases.•In the period 2006-2011, conviction rates stood at only 6.5% of reported incidents.•David Cheal argues that the police are unwilling to become involved in family life for the following reasons:–See the family as private, state shouldn’t interfere–See the family as a good thing – neglect darker sideBelieve women are free to leave abusive relationships