Monotropy is a controversial idea because it has implications for the lifestyle choices that mothers make when they are young.
Erica Burman (1994) suggests that this places a burden of responsibility for mothers, trivialising their post-partum decisions. This would increase the harmful stereotypes and hinder progressive thinking about working mothers.
This is because the law of accumulated separations states that having substantial time apart from a primary attachment figure risks a poor attachment quality.
Furthermore, research from Lamb (1997) challenges Bowlby’s monotropic theory as he found that children form multiple attachments and that the quality, not quantity, of care matters most — challenging Bowlby’s emphasis on a singular, constant caregiver.
This could be skewed by the media, portraying working mothers in a negative light.