Stage 3 - Phallic stage (3-6)the major conflict of this stage is the Oedipus complex in which male children unconsciously wishes to possess their mother and to get rid of their fathers and as a result of this desire boys experience castration anxiety and in an attempt to resolve this conflict and problem the child will identify with his fartherthis effects the adult of the personality because if an infant is fixated at this stage there may be problems due to inappropriate learning of gender behaviour and then the phallic character may be self- assured , reckless , vain and proud