Built on the assumption that social and cultural conditions, especially childhood experiences, are largely responsible for shaping personality
People who do not have their needs for love and affection satisfied during childhood
Develop basic hostility toward their parents
Suffer from basic anxiety
Fundamental styles of relating to others
Moving toward people
Moving against people
Moving away from people
Neurotic
Relies on only one of the fundamental styles of relating to others, which generates a basic intrapsychic conflict
Forms of intrapsychic conflict
Idealized self-image (neurotic search for glory, neurotic claims, or neurotic pride)
Self-hatred (self-contempt or alienation from the self)
Contrast to Freud
Horney insisted that it is social forces rather than biological that are paramount in personality development
Horney views humanity in an optimistic light and is centered on cultural forces that are amenable to change, in contrast to Freud's pessimistic concept of humanity based on innate instincts and the stagnation of personality
Impact of culture
Culture, especially early childhood experiences, plays a leading role in shaping human personality, either neurotic or healthy
Modern culture is based on competition among individuals
Competitiveness and the basic hostility it spawns result in feelings of isolation
Intense feelings of isolation lead to needs for affection, which can cause people to overvalue love
The desperate need for love results in low self-esteem, increased hostility, basic anxiety, more competitiveness, and a continuous excessive need for love and affection
Cultural teachings of kinship and humility clash with the prevailing attitude of aggressiveness and the desire to win or be superior
Society's demands for success and achievement are never-ending, leading to a constant pursuit of new goals even after material ambitions are fulfilled
Western society promotes the idea of freedom and the ability to achieve anything through hard work, but in reality, freedom is limited by genetics, social status, and competition from others
Childhood experiences
Lack of genuine warmth and affection may leave impressions on a child's future development
Difficult childhood is primarily responsible for neurotic needs
Neurotic needs become powerful because they are the child's only means of gaining feelings of safety
The totality of early relationships molds personality development
Basic hostility
Develops when parents do not satisfy children's needs
Basic anxiety
Results from child's repressed hostility
Profound feelings of insecurity and a vague sense of apprehension
A feeling of being isolated and helpless in a world conceived as potentially hostile
Basic anxiety and basic hostility are inextricably interwoven
Defenses against basic anxiety
Affection (a strategy that does not always lead to authentic love)
Submissiveness (neurotics who submit to another person often do so in order to gain affection)
Striving for power, prestige and possession (a defense against the real or imagined hostility of others)
Withdrawal (developing an independence from others or by becoming emotionally detached from them)
Compulsive drives
Neurotic individuals face similar challenges to normal people, but they experience them more intensely
Both use protective strategies against rejection and hostility, but while normal individuals adapt their defenses, neurotics repetitively employ unproductive methods due to compulsive needs to reduce anxiety
Neurotic needs
Characterise neurotics in their attempts to combat basic anxiety. A person may employ more than one.
10 categories of neurotic needs
Need for affection and approval
Need for a powerful partner
Need to strict one's life within narrow borders
Need for power
Need to exploit others
Need for social prestige and recognition
Need for personal admiration
Need for ambition and personal achievement
Need for self-sufficiency and independence
Need for perfection and unassailability
Neurotic trends
Moving toward people
Moving against people
Moving away from people
Horney used the term basic conflict because very young children are driven in all three directions—toward, against, and away from people
Moving toward people
Does not mean moving toward them in the spirit of genuine love, but to a neurotic need to protect oneself against feelings of helplessness
Moving against people
Aggressive people take for granted that everyone is hostile and move against others by appearing tough or ruthless
Moving away from people
An expression of needs for privacy, independence, and self-sufficiency
Idealized self-image
An attempt to solve conflicts by painting a godlike picture of oneself
Self-hatred
An interrelated yet equally irrational and powerful tendency to despise one's real self
Aspects of the idealized image
The neurotic search for glory
Neurotic claims
Neurotic pride
Neurotic search for glory
The comprehensive drive toward actualizing the ideal self, including the need for perfection, the tyranny of the should, neurotic ambition, and the drive toward vindictive triumph
Neurotic claims
Neurotics build a fantasy world and believe they are special and entitled to be treated in accordance with their idealized view of themselves
Neurotic pride
A false pride based not on a realistic view of the true self but on a spurious image of the idealized self