that people are selfish & we form & maintain relationships based on what we can get out of it
what type of theory is SET?
economic
we will form relationship if its rewarding to is
we attempt to maximise our rewards & minimise costs in relationship
we maintain relationship if outcome for us is profitable - more rewards than costs
SET - relationship formation & maintenace?
if there are morerewards than costs in relationship it will be maintained
if there are morecosts then we are putoff the relationship
SET & individual differences?
what people consider to be reward & cost is subjective
one person may consider something to be reward that different person may not
eg having children
comparison levels?
this is product of our past experiences in other relationships & our generalexpectations
relationship will be maintained if potential profitexceeds our comparison levels - affected by self esteem/role models/movies
if your current partner exceeds CL relationship is maintained
comparison levels for alternatives?
when we weigh up potential increase in rewards from alternative partner against any costs associated with ending current relationship
if quality of alternative is not higher relationship is maintained
if quality of alternative is higher than current partner relationship will not be maintained - can give you more rewards than current partner
2 * of social exchange theory?
explains all romantic relationships
evidence from simpson 1990
3 X of social exchange theory?
oversimplifies complex human romantic relationships - argyle
not as complex as rusbults investment model
culturally biased
* explains all romantic relationships?
as theory looks at rewards & costs cn be used to explain all romantic rs all all include rewards & costs no matter what sex of couple is
also in abusive rs abuse is cost but may still be rewards - having children/receiving gifts/financial security explaining why rs is maintained
population
takes into account subjectivity of perceivedrewards & costs of each individual & thus can be generalised to every type of rs
* evidence from simpson 1990?
showed p pictures of people & they had to judge their attractiveness
those who were in happy romantic rs were morelikely to rate them lower than those who were not in happy romantic rs
shows that comparison level for alternatives is accurate as it demonstrates that those who are in happy romantic rs arent looking for alternatives as theyre receiving more rewards than costs so rs is maintained
X oversimplifies complex romantic relationships?
argyle suggests saying rs is similar to balance sheet as SET does - all about rewards & costs is unrealistic
rs based on feelings & human emotion - theory does not take into account
not everyone is bothered by how much reward they gain in rs some care more about otherperson
fails to explain why those in non profitable costly rs still maintain romantic rs
? ecological
isnt realistic explanation of rs
ungeneralisable to real life romantic experiences
may be other factors besides rewards & costs influencing formation & maintenance of rs
X not as complex as rusbults investment model?
rusbults investment model not only considers rewards & costs in rs also consideres factors that affect commitment in rs
its about maximising our rewards & doesnt explain deeper factors which can better explain how couples successfullystay together & maintain their romantic rs
X culturally biased?
its more suited to individualistic cultures than collectivist cultures
this is because in individualistic cultures people care more about their ownrewards
in collectivist cultures they are more concerned with others than themselves
eg wives in collectivist culture do all houseword & childcare whilst husband goes to work to earn money - may be receiving more costs than rewards but still manage to maintain rs
? population
cannot be generalised to all cultures & explain why they still maintain rs despite having imbalances in their costs & rewards