The ashes should be scattered in running water. Many will try to take the ashes to the Ganges as this is considered to be a holy river and a living goddess
The body is placed with feet acing south towards the god of death; Yama
Close male relatives wash a mans body and dress him in new clothes. For a female, it is a close female relative
The eldest son (or chief mourner) lights the pyre, cracks the skull with a large bamboo stick (to release the atman) and collects the ashes