Module 4: TOWARD VALUE FORMATION Values, Belief and Actions
Desired Learning Outcomes
Seen the relationships between values, beliefs and actions
Determined their personal values and identify the principles of valuing
Enumerated the steps of the valuing process
Applied the "beatitudes" as a model for values that are inherently Christian
Values
One's actions, what he or she most cherishes
Some value
Money that they become misers
Powers and become dictators
Family, and their whole lives center on what they can do for their spouse and children
Values
Always have a positive function
Negative values are actually actions violating the standard behavior but are rationalized in the context of existing values
Negative value
Pakikisama - when someone takes drugs due to peer pressure and later would resort to stealing
Values
Influential that they affect the totality of the person's life
Control one's actions and choices
Determine a group's feelings of likes and dislikes as well as feelings related to what is acceptable and unacceptable
Serve as a guide to one's plan, decision making and response to change
Values
Related to one's search for meaning in life
Beliefs
Verbally spoken statements about what is true, important or what ought to be
Actions
An operation by which a value is determined, serving as a pointer or indicator to one's value
Before anything becomes a value, it has to pass through what is called the "seven sub-processes of valuing"
Jesus shows the importance of the relationship between words and actions
A false prophet is one who said one thing and did another
There is only one way a person's sincerity can be proved, and that is by his practice</b>
Fine words (stated beliefs) can never substitute for fine deeds
False prophets harm other people by lying to them and manipulating them to act in ways they would not normally act
False prophets hurt themselves since they are always on "shaky ground", afraid to be discovered for what they really are
There is a great need for people today to identify and clarify their personal values
People may be grouped in to three in relation to their values
Those who appear to have no apparent values
Those who have strongly defined values
Those who have values yet they are poorly defined
Value indicators
That which help people know what they truly consider important in life, such as goals, purposes, aspirations, beliefs, convictions, activities, worries, problems, daydreams, use of time, use of money, use of energy
Jesus felt that people should have clearly defined values
He challenged people to determine what they valued the most
The valuing process
1. Choosing freely
2. Choosing among alternatives
3. Choosing after thoughtful consideration of the consequence of each alternative
4. Prizing and cherishing
5. Affirming
6. Acting upon choices
7. Repeating
Unless something satisfies all seven of the criteria of the valuing process, we do not call it value
Choosing freely
If something is to guide one's life, it must be a result of free choice
Choosing among alternatives
There can be no choice if there are no alternatives from which to choose
Choosing after thoughtful consideration of the consequence of each alternative
Impulsive or thoughtless choices do not lead to values
Prizing and cherishing
When one values something, it has a positive tone, we prize it, cherish it, esteem it, respect it, hold it dear
Affirming
When we have chosen something freely, after consideration of the alternatives, and we are proud of our choice, glad to be associated with it, we are likely to affirm our choice when we are asked about it
Acting upon choices
Our values show up in our living, we do something about it, it gives direction to actual living
Repeating
For something to be a value, it must be repeated
Value
Something that has a positive tone, that we prize, cherish, esteem, respect, hold dear
Choice
Even when made freely and thoughtfully, may be a choice we are not happy to make
Values
Flow from choices that we are happy to make, that we prize and cherish as a guide to life
Valuing Process
1. Choosing freely
2. Choosing from alternatives
3. Choosing after thoughtful consideration of consequences
4. Prizing and being happy with the choice
5. Affirming the choice publicly
6. Acting upon the choice
7. Repeating the choice in a pattern in life
The processes of choosing, prizing and acting collectively define valuing
The results of the valuing process are called values
The Beatitudes come from the Latin word "beatus" meaning "blessed" or "made happy"
Some modern cynical people refer to the Beatitudes as the "Be-attitudes"
Jesus was advocating values in the Beatitudes that, if accepted and claimed, would have led to happiness of those around
The poor in spirit
Simple, unspoiled folk who recognise their spiritual poverty and turn to God for spiritual enrichment
The sorrowing
Those who bear suffering courageously and with faith, trying to understand and share their neighbor's pain