1st Lesson (About sa Relationship eme)

• Attraction

  • collegiately defined attraction as: the action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something; and a quality or feature that evokes interest, liking, or desire.
• Interpersonal Attraction

  relates only between two people having an intimate and romantic relationship.

  • it may also transpire between friends, colleagues, family members, and others.
• Interpersonal Attraction

  • relates only between two people having an intimate and romantic relationship.
  • it may also transpire between friends, colleagues, family members, and others.
• Physical Attractiveness

  • Facial features have an impact when talking with another person or people.
  • these are the first things available elements presented even without interaction.
• Similarity

  • similarity causes attraction.
  • People classify other people based on information they already knew about them.
  • people mentally group others on where they belong and that with the same characteristics with them.
• Proximity

  • One of the important aspects of any relationship is distance.
  • This pertains to physical distance with other people and it is related to functional distance.
• Proximity

  • The more you encounter or interact with the person, the more you allow yourself to get to know them better.
• Reciprocity

  • Reciprocity is when people tend to share the same feelings with each other.
  • Feelings with someone are being reciprocated or returned in the same way as you do.
• Love

  • a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties.
  • attraction based on sexual desire: affection and tenderness felt by lovers.
  • affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests.
• Love

  • An assurance of affection.
  • It may differ depending on one's experience and knowledge of love, though.
  • This emotional bond depends on the presence or absence of support from others.
• Personal Relationship

  • is a form of relationship closely linked to a person and which can only be important to that person.
• Kinds of Personal Relationship

  1. Impersonal Relationship
  2. Privacy and Intimacy
  3. Attraction
• Privacy and Intimacy

  • are two attributes describing personal relationships and level of commitment to another person/s.
• Impersonal Relationship

  • the commitment to an organization like a business entity, a principle or purpose.
• Attraction

  • It is a force that unites people and can grow into an attachment which eventually leads to commitment.
• Healthy and Acceptable Expressions of Attraction

  1. Mutual Respect
  2. Trust
  3. Honesty
  4. Support
  5. Fairness/Equality
  6. Separate Identities
  7. Good Communication
• Things that are Unacceptable in a Relationship

  1. Cheating
  2. Putting you down
  3. Not supporting your dreams
  4. Controlling
  5. Lack of Communication
  6. Unnecessary Sacrifice
  7. Unreliability
  8. Forgetting the Memorable day
  9. Self-Distraction
  10. Not Caring about friends and Family