The union of a man and a woman as husband and wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law
Filipino family
May observe the traditional customs but many follow modern or contemporary practices
Family
The basic social unit which every child belongs to
Boys and Girls
Acquire the values and culture of their groups and learn the social roles appropriate to their positions through socialization
Kinds of dating
Casual dating
Special dating
Steady dating
Blind dating
Group dating
Usually, dating by a couple starts in a group. Later on it leads to single dating
Courtship
A form of behavior by which one seeks to win the love of someone of the opposite sex
Stages of courtship
Dating
Going steady
Private understanding
Engagement
Engagement
The last phase after the woman has accepted the open declaration of love and affection of the man in private understanding
Both parties should always remember that engagement is commitment to be honored and that the entire family is at stake if something untoward happens
The process of engagement
When two people fall in love, they enter into a personal commitment which becomes a private understanding
Kinds of love
Infantile love
Filial love
Pre-adolescent love
Peer love
Mature love
Mature love
The kind of love a person feels when he is truly in love. He will always try to do his best for the sake of his partner and do what is best to keep the relationship happy and harmonious
Traditional courtship practices
Harana
Panunuyo
Paninilbihan
Pamamanhikan
Modern day courtship
Courting nowadays is done through letters, by sending gifts, by going out in groups, or through phone calls
Elements of love
Knowledge
Respect
Care
Responsibility
Factors that influence the selection of a partner
Physical attractiveness
Nearness or propinquity
Similarity
Common interest/values
Reciprocal feelings
Practicality
Wedding ceremony
To impress on the couple and their relatives and friends the change of status of the couple, both legally and psychologically
To announce publicly the new status, to give public support and stability to the new relationship as emphasized by the titles "Mr. & Mrs.", and the taking of the husband's family name by the wife
To give legal protection to the wife and to the children born of the union
To sanctify and glorify the relationship, giving it divine blessing and approval in the case of church wedding
Areas that require adjustments in marriage
Sex as an important element of marriage
Pattern of authority
Working wife and family matters
In-laws and extended family
Lack of communication
Common conflicts in marriage
Incompatibility
The problem of in-laws
Emotional immaturity
Sexual difficulties
Power conflict
Irrational jealousy
Family planning
The consideration of the number of children a person wishes to have, including the choice to have no children, and the age at which they wish to have them
Family planning allows people to decide when and if to have children, using the information, means and methods they need to do so
Family planning results in smaller, healthier families that are better able to care for themselves
Obstacles to family planning use
Fear of side effects
Fear of cost of managing side effects
Fear of children dying
Lack of men's and community leaders' participation in family planning programme
Importance of family planning
Improve maternal health and survival
Promote social and economic development security
Promotes financial stability
Reduces the chances of abortion
Elements of family planning
Proper spacing
Proper timing
Number of pregnancies
Family planning
The decision to have children, including the choice to have no children, and the age at which they wish to have them
Things that may play a role in family planning decisions include marital situation, career or work considerations, financial situations
Family planning affects the community by
Resulting in smaller, healthier families that are better able to care for themselves
Obstacles to family planning use
Fear of side effects
Fear of cost of managing side effects
Fear of children dying
Lack of men's and community leaders' participation in family planning programme
Importance of family planning
Improve maternal health and survival
Promote social and economic development security
Promotes financial stability
Reduces the chances of abortion
Elements of family planning
Proper spacing
Proper timing
No. of pregnancies
Benefits of family planning for mother
More time to take herself, husband and children
Avoids risky and unwanted pregnancies
Have more time to take personal advancement and development
Benefits of family planning for father
Feel the satisfaction of safeguarding the wellness of his spouse and children
Can have more time to plan for the finances ahead
Spend more quality time with wife for better relationship
Benefits of family planning for children
Children will feel that they are loved unconditionally and given enough attention
Get closely guided with their growth and development
Can get provided well with their basic needs
Types of family planning
Natural family planning
Barrier family planning
Permanent/Surgical family planning
Natural family planning
No introduction of chemicals or foreign materials into the body
Examples of natural family planning
Rhythm (calendar) method
Basal Body Temperature (BBT)
Ovulation or Cervical Mucus Method
Symptothermal Method
Coitus Interruptus
Lactational amenorrhea
Barrier family planning
Physically block or otherwise prevent sperm from entering the uterus and reaching the egg for fertilization