systematic desensitization
1) counter conditioning is used so that the person learns to associate the phobic stimulus with relaxation rather than fear
2)phobic person makes 'fear hierarchy" showing what they fear least and most
3)then taught relaxation techniques like deep breathing
4) patient then imagines the anxiety-provoking situations starting with the least stressful
5)repeated until feared event is only linked with relaxation
6)whole process is repeated for each stage of the fear hierarchy