Tannen argues that where women speak and hear language of connection and intimacy, men speak and hear language of status and independence.
Speak different genderlects
Report v Rapport
Rapport- talk is more concerned with building relationships. modality, speaker support…
Report- factual+ declarative. less speaker support
Challenges of DeborahTannens study
Lack of mix sex work within study
Jane Pilkington- 1992 (difference)
Researched the features of gossip in all male and all female settings.
Methodology- recorded 2 different all male and all female groups
Results- Female (cooperative talk) little pauses, positive feedback, minimal responses m
Male (uncooperative)long silences, sudden topic shifts, disagreements
Conclusion- behave different when gossiping however have the same goals for interaction
Marjorie Goodwin- 1980 (difference)
Directives are used differently
methodology- recorded boys and girls in same sex interactions. Boys used direct orders and use face threatening acts.
Boys used aggravated directives
However, female participants used mitigating imperatives and politeness marker. modality and inclusive pronouns
challenges- small study
Jennifer Coates- 1989 (difference)
Methodology- recorded a group of female friends. Found that the main goal in women's language is to maintain a good social relationship.
Conclusion- women’s use of minimalresponses, rage questions and hedging devices in general has been interpreted as a sign of weakness.Subordinate position to men
4 aspects of cooperative style language according to Jennifer Coates
Topic development- don’t seek dominance. More cooperative. Turn taking
Minimal responses- Speaker support. Shows active attention . Tends to show agreement
Simultaneous speech- overlaps are positive and supportive. Collaborative
Epistemicmodality- level of modality. Not to impose actions on others directly ‘perhaps’
The dominance model
Dominance model theorists Zimmerman and west, Robin Lakoff and Pamela Fishman saw males and females as being different in terms of power in conversation
Robin Lakoff- 1975 (dominance)
Context- second wave feminism
RobinLakoff identified ‘womens language’ as a form of language that reinforced women’s subordinate status in a patriarchal society.
She claimed that women were more polite then men and used more tag questions such as ‘isn’t it’.
Employed hedges such as ‘perhaps’ made their statement less certain.
Women were often interrupted by men and unfunny
Lakoff identified these differences as being due to the childhoodsocialisation process
Challenges to RobinLakoffdominance model
The sample isn’t statistically diverse or significant. Language is context bound. Doesn’t consider culturally determined language
Zimmerman and West- 1975 (dominance)
Focused on simultaneousspeech and minimalresponses in spoken interaction
31 conversations: 10 women, 10 men, 11 mixed sex
Men rarely interrupt each other only interruptwomen
After overlapsspeakers tend to fall silent
In mixedsexconversations men often delayed minimalresponses which could show lack of understanding or interest
Research of language variation in a specific institutional context- American courts
O’Barr and Atkins used information by practice lawyers
Findings-
Some women adopted Lakoffs ‘women’s language’
Men also exhibited women’s features
Some female witnesses were the opposite
The use of women’sfeatures is closely linked to social position
Conclusion of O’Barr and Atkins research
Many feature of women’s language is more closely related to social position and specific context
Deborah Cameron (diversity)
DeborahCameron’s theory believed that difference is a myth.
Camerons research focuses on the relationship between language and Gender and how it is affected by society
Challenges the belief that men and women speak different languages and believe that any difference are due to expectations placed upon us by society
Judith Butler (diversity)
Butler suggested the idea of gender performative.
This refers to the notion that gender can be preformed and someone’s gender identity is a result of recurrent behaviours that emulate gender roles and norms
Gender is constructed throughout language we choose to use
Language we use is not determined by biological sex
There isn't a difference between men’s and womens language