If the resultant of all the forces on an object is zero, we say the forces are balanced. If there is a non-zero resultant force on an object, the forces are unbalanced.
On Earth the gravitational field strength has a value of about 10 newtons per kilogram (N/kg). This means that each kilogram is pulled down with a force of 10 N.
Calculating an object's inertial mass from values of force and acceleration gives the same mass value as that found by measuring the force of gravity on it
Newton's Third Law is about the forces on two different objects when they interact with each other. There is a pair of forces acting on the two interactive objects, called action-reaction forces. The two forces are always the same size and in opposite directions.
Action-reaction forces are not the same as balanced forces. In both cases the sizes of the forces are equal and act in opposite directions, but action-reaction forces act on different objects, while balanced forces all act on the same object.
Action and reaction forces during a collision are the same size, but they do not necessarily have the same effects on the two objects because the objects have different masses