things that have been linked with happiness include marriage, friendship, college graduation, religion, exercise, gratitude, and experiences
life events, money, young age, and location are not good predictors of happiness
flow - a mental state in which we are completely immersed in what we are doing
affective forecasting - our ability to predict our happiness and others' happiness, we are surprisingly bad at this
durability bias - we tend to overestimate the duration of our moods
people with anxiety especially overestimate the longevity of the impact of negative events
life events don't tend to change our overall happiness in the long term
hedonic treadmill - the tendency for our moods to adapt to external circumstances
positive psychology - field of study that emphasizes human strengths
Seligman's PERMA model of wellbeing - includes five core tenants that indicate happiness and wellbeing across the board
the PERMA model includes positive emotion, engagement, positive relationships, meaning, and accomplishment/achievement
self esteem - our evaluation of our own worth
self esteem is positive correlated with happiness, but negatively correlated with loneliness
positivity effect - tendency to remember more positive than negative information as we get older
narcissism - personality trait marked by extreme self-centeredness
experiments are the only way that causal relationships can be proven
stress - a response that occurs when a stressor strains our ability to cope effectively
traumatic event - a stressor so severe that it can produce long-term psychological or health consequences
there are three key approaches to studying stress, those are stress as stimuli, stress as a response, and stress as a transaction
stress as stimuli - approach to studying stress that focuses on identifying different types of stressful events, ones that are more unpredictable are more distressing
stress as stimuli identifies categories of stressors, and people who are more susceptible to greater stress response following negative events
hassles - minor annoyances or nuisances that strain our ability to cope
social readjustment rating scale (SRRS) - measures the occurrence of stressful life events. the number of stressful life events is correlated with negative psychological and physical outcomes
hassles scale - measures the occurrence of small nuisances and daily pressures. they are better predictors than major life events on health outcomes
stress as a response - approach to stress focused on identifying how people react to stress physiologically and psychologically
posttraumatic growth - the perception of beneficial change or personal transformation in the struggle to overcome adversity. 2/4-3/4 people who have experienced extreme stress express that they experienced this at some level
general adaptation syndrome - stress-induced pattern that consists of three stages, which are alarm, resistance, and exhaustion
alarm - excitation of the autonomic nervous system, release of corticosteroids, physical symptoms
resistance - adaptation to the stressor, finding ways to deal with the stress
exhaustion - activation decreases, either because the threat is over or because we cannot sustain high levels of stress for an extended period of time
stress as a transaction - approach to stress focused on identifying how people interpret and cope with stressful events
primary appraisal - is this situation harmful?
secondary appraisal - can I cope with this situation?
problem focused coping - problem solving, tackling challenges head on, used when we feel optimistic/think we can achieve our goals
emotion focused coping - positive outlook on feelings/situations, engage in behavior that reduces painful emotions, seek emotional support, used when we can't avoid or control a situation
hardiness - set of attitudes marked by a sense of control over events, and belief in one's ability to change the situation. lack of this belief results in learned helplessness and depression
organisms with learned helplessness will not attempt to change the situation, even when they now have control over it
gaining behavioral control - taking actions to reduce the impact of a stressful situation
gaining cognitive control - changing your thoughts about negative emotions that occur in stressful situations
gaining decisional control - gaining control over stressful situations by choosing between alternatives