Place and remove all food from the left of the guest
Place and remove all beverages, including water, from the right of the guest
Use the left hand to place and remove dishes when working on the left side of the guest and the right hand when working on the right side of the guest
Place each dish on the table with the four fingers of the hand under the lower edge and the thumb of the upper edge
Never reach in front of the guest, or across one person to serve another
Present serving dishes from the left side, in a position, so that the guest can serve himself
Place serving silver on the right side of the dish, with handles turned toward the guest so that he may reach and handle them easily
Do not place soiled, chipped, or cracked glassware and china or bent or tarnished silverware before a guest
Hold silverware by the handles when it is laid in place
Handle tumblers by their bases and goblets by their stems
Do not lift water glasses from the table to fill and refill
Set fruit juice and cocktail glasses, cereal dishes, soup bowls, and dessert dishes on small plates before placing them in the center of the cover between the knife and the fork
When the salad is served as a separate course, place it directly in front of the guest
Place individual serving trays of bread and rolls above and to the left of the forks
Place the cup and saucer at the right of the spoons, about 2 inches from the edge of the table
Set tea and coffee pots on small plates and place them above and slightly to the right side of the beverage cup
Set iced beverage glasses on coasters or small plates to protect tabletops and linen cloth
Place individual creamers, syrup pitchers, and small lemon plates above and a little to the right of the cup and saucer
Place a milk glass at the right of and below the water glass
Serve butter, cheese, and cut lemon with a fork
Serve relishes, pickles, and olives with a fork or spoon, not with fingers