John Holmes: '"There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up"'
Altruism
A motive to increase another's welfare without conscious regard for one's self-interests
Altruism
Selfishness in reverse
An altruistic person is concerned and helpful even when no benefits are offered or expected in return
Three Complementary Theories of Altruism
Social Exchange theory
Social Norms
Evolutionary Psychology
Social Exchange Theory
Theory that human interactions are transactions that aim to maximize one's rewards and minimize one's costs
Social Exchange Theory
Guided by "social economics"
Helping as disguised self interest
Egoism - a motive (supposedly underlying all behavior) to increase one's own welfare
Empathy as a source of genuine altruism
Egoistic and Altruistic routes to helping
Social Norms
Often we help others not because we have consciously calculated that such behaviors are in our self-interest but simply because something tells us we ought to
Reciprocity norm
An expectation that people will help, not hurt, those who have helped them
Social responsibility norm
An expectation that people will help those who need help, without regard to future exchanges
Evolutionary Psychology
Contends that the essence of life is gene survival
Kin protection
Kin Selection - the idea that evolution has selected altruism toward one's close relatives to enhance the survival of mutually shared genes
Situational Influences on Helping
Number of Bystanders
Helping when someone else does
Time pressures
Helping process
1. Noticing
2. Interpreting
3. Assuming Responsibility
Personal Influences on Helping
Feelings (Guilt, Negative Mood, Exceptions to the feel bad-do good, Feel good, Do good)
Personality traits
Religiosity
Whom do we help?
Gender
Similarity
How we increase helping?
Undoing the restraints on helping (Reduce ambiguity, increase responsibility, Guilt and concern for self-image, door-in-the-face technique)
Socializing Altruism (Teaching Moral Inclusion, Moral Exclusion)
Modeling Altruism (Attributing helpful behavior to altruistic motives, Overjustification effect)