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• PROXIMITY - best predictor of liking and loving
• MERE-EXPOSURE - repeated exposure on the object or

  person will more likely lead to a positive feeling
• SIMILARITY - reciprocity of liking effect
• PHYSICAL-ATTRACTIVENESS - what is beautiful is a good stereotype
• PHYSIOLOGICAL-SYNCHRONY - The synchrony during social interactions relates to social processes that lead to friendship.
• CONTRAST-EFFECT - Attractiveness of an individual is affected by a comparison standard, and it can be positive or negative depending on the standard that has been

  chosen
• FRIENDSHIP - Connecting and interacting with friends would result in healthy or helpful thinking and behavioral patterns and overall positive outcomes for the individual
• SELF-PERCEPTION THEORY - states that one interprets his/her own actions in the same way that one interprets others action
• ATTRACTION - Modern science has proven that love usually starts with physical attraction
• COMMITMENT - is when one promises a loved one that he/she will not look at another person the same way he/she does for him/her it means that keeping that promise despite temptations along the way
• 3 COMPONENTS OF LOVE - Intimacy , Passion , Commitment
• NON-LOVE – Absence of the components, simply a casual interaction like that of acquaintances or with someone you are not particularly attracted with
• INFATUATED – Passion, crushes fall under this category
• FRIENDSHIP – intimacy, it can be a start for other forms of love to manifest
• ROMANTIC/PASSIONATE – passion & intimacy, chracterized by intense longing for union with another and is type of love where one's love is reciprocated by another
• COMPANIONATE – intimacy & commitment, This is more on affectionate

  attachment rather than love
• FATUOUS – passion & commitment, whirlwind romances" and "love at first sight
• EMPTY LOVE – commitment, his love is seen in arranged marriages or relationships
• CONSUMMATE – all components, Considered as the most perfect or ideal love.
• HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP - it is a relationship that is based on equality and respect
• UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP- it is a relationship that is based on the attempts to control the other person
• ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP - a relationship that is based on an imbalance of power and control with accusations, blame shifting, isolation pressure and manipulation
• SOCIAL NORMS - Are ways of behaving within society.
• LEADERSHIP - An important role in the society is ascribed

  to leaders
• AUTHORITATIVE - strict type of leadership
• DEMOCRATIC - participative
• LAISSEZ-FAIRE - relaxed form of leadership
• TRANSACTIONAL - follows give and take format
• SERVANT-LEADERSHIP - many effective leaders and has been found to transform both the servant leaders, people, and organization
• ACT-NOW - Acting now will give you miles of advantage over some other emerging leaders later
• 4 DIMENSIONS OF GRIT (DR. PAUL G. STOLTZ)

  • Growth
  • Resilience
  • Instinct
  • Tenacity
• GROWTH - This refers to the tendency to act and consider new ideas
• RESILIENCE - This is the capacity to respond constructively and make good use of adversities
• INSTINCT - This refers to the person's gut level capacity to pursue the rights goals in the best smartest ways
• TENACITY - This is the degree to which one commits to a goal and persists in achieving it
• ROBUSTNESS - This is how well a person holds up over time
• QUALITY - This is achieved when a person

  consistently and reliably demonstrates their

  fullest grit in achieving his or her goals.
• FAMILY - is the basic unit of society. That is where a person grows up and what shapes himself as someone, he/she is today
• AUTHORITATIVE

  • Clear expectations
  • Definite rules
  • Supportive
• AUTHORITARIAN

  • High expectations
  • Disciplined
  • Unsupportive