using the "childhood experiences" assumption of the psychodynamic approach, the formation of romantic relationships can be explained through the progression through the psychosexual stages of development.
according to Freud, if a child successfully progresses through each stage ending at the genital stage, this will lead to an individual with a well-developed adult personality who will go on to form a heterosexual romantic relationship.
however, any fixations make this difficult.
for example, if a child is fixated at the oral stage of development and is overindulged, this could results in an unhealthy dependence on others in adulthood.
if this is the case, this adult could become "needy," in a relationship and seek constant reassurance.