Oral (0-1 years) - focus of pleasure is mouth. Sucking, eating etc.
Anal (1-3 years) - focus of pleasure is anus. Child gains pleasure from withholding and expelling faeces
Phallic (3-6 years) - focus of pleasure is genitals. Child experiences oedipus conflict or electra conflict
Latency (6-11 years) - transitional stage no pleasure. Boys and girls spend little time together.
Gential (11+ years) - focus of pleasure is the genitals and experiencing pleasure with a partner.