Rogers Humanistic Theory -
The self = our perception of oneself, 'what am I' & 'what can I do'
Congruence =similarity between ideal self and actual self in reality, the more similar the better your feelings of self worth.
Incongruence = big differences between self and ideal self, self-actualisation is not possible.
Conditions of worth = unconditional positive regard or conditional positive regard.
~ unconditional = feel valued and respected without having to meet any conditions.
~ conditional = only feel loved/valued if they meet the conditions of worth.