One of the most misunderstood words in the English Language. It is not some rigid code of manners, it's simply how person's lives touch one another
Etiquette
It is about building relationships, plain and simple. It gives us clues as to how we should act and what we should do in any given situation, so that we can be as successful as a possible in our interactions with the people around us
Three things that affect a relationship
Actions
Appearance
Words
Job skills
The capabilities you bring to work
Peopleskills
A set of skills enabling a person to get along with others, to communicate ideas effectively, to resolve conflicts, and to achieve personal or business goals
Etiquette
The power that fuels our relationships, by helping us know how to act and how to expect others to act in any kind of situation
Manners
Not rules, they are guidelines. They tell us what to do in all kinds of situations and what we can expect other people to do
The 3 Principles that Govern all Etiquette
Consideration
Respect
Honesty
Consideration
Looking at the current situation and assessing how it affects every who is involved
Respect
Looking at how your possible actions will affect others in the future
Honesty
Acting sincerely and being truthful, not deceitful
It is not enough to be considerate, respectful and honest. You must also be sincere. If you are not, people will see through your veneer</b>
Conforming to certain customs and principles doesn't mean forsaking who you are. You may not like doing some of the things expected of you</b>