The time when you start dreaming about big things in life
During adolescence, you confront questions like
"Where to from here?" "Who can I be?" "What if?"
Personality
A pattern of relatively permanent traits and characteristics that makes a person's behavior consistent and distinct
Persona
The masks worn by Roman actors in Greek dramas in order to project their respective roles
Traits
Qualities that are inherently unique, common to some group, or shared by an entire species but the pattern is different for each individual
Characteristics
Unique qualities of an individual that include such attributes as temperament, physique, and intelligence
Temperament
One's personality that is believed to appear as early as infancy and continuously develops throughout childhood and adolescence based on behavioral and emotional predispositions that were present at birth
Self-concept
An individual's belief about himself or herself, including his or her attributes and who and what the self is
RealSelf
Who you actually are, your abilities, strengths, and weaknesses
Ideal Self
What you envision to be or who you wish to become
Types of Self-Concept
Subjective self or the existential self
Objective or the categorical self
Emotional Self
Social Self
Psychological Self
Valued Self
Developing a healthy Self-Concept
Knowing yourself, determining and understanding your strengths, weaknesses, talents, and potentials
Beinghonestwith yourself and being true to who you are and what you value
Takingresponsibility for your actions and choices
Loving and accepting yourself as you are, knowing that you can improve and develop any aspect of yourself that you choose
"I am your Creator. You were in my care even before you were born." Isaiah 44:2
God prescribed every single detail of your body
God made you for a reason
God also planned where you'd be born and where you'd live for his purpose
God decided how you would be born
God's motive for creating you was his love
Holisticdevelopment
The complete aspects of a person or his totality
René Descartes influenced much of mankind's thinking with his theory of duality or understanding the nature of things in a simple, dual mode
In 1926, General Jan C. Smuts wrote about holism in his book Holism and Evolution, introducing the academic terminology for holism as "the tendency in nature to form holes which are greater than the sum of the parts through creative evolution"
The Various Aspects of Holistic Development of a Person
physiological or the physical attributes including the five physical senses
cognitive or the intellectual functions of the mind: thinking, recognizing, reasoning, analyzing, projecting, synthesizing, recalling, and assessing
psychological or how thinking, feeling, and behaving interact and happen in a person
social or the manner by which an individual interacts with other individuals or groups of individuals
spiritual or the attribute of a person's consciousness and beliefs, including the values and virtues that guide and put meaning into a person's life
Basichuman drives
Those that are biologically related such as hunger and thirst
Affect
The various emotional experiences such as emotions, moods, and affective traits
Emotions
Variations in level of arousal, affective state or mood, expressive movements, and attitudes
Feelings
Arise from the brain as it interprets an emotion, which is usually caused by physical sensations experienced by the body as a reaction to a certain external stimulus
Attitude
A result of a person's evaluation of an experience with another person, object, idea, behavior, or situation based on his or her values and belief systems
Behavior
A manifestation or acting out of the attitudes an individual has
Values
The highest ideals of human existence that create meaning and purpose in a person's life
Schwartz's 10 Common Values
Self-direction
Stimulation
Hedonism
Achievement
Power
Security
Conformity
Tradition
Benevolence
Universalism
Motivational Goals that Characterize the 10 Values
Openness to change
Self-transcendence
Self-enhancement
Conservation
Virtue
A habitual and firm disposition to do good that allows the person not only to perform good acts, but also to give the best of himself or herself
Developmental tasks
Processes inherent in every stage of development that need to be accomplished successfully in preparation for other developmental tasks in the next stage of development
Tasks of an Adolescent
Adjust to sexually maturing bodies and feelings
Develop and apply abstract thinking skills
Develop and apply a more complex level of perspective thinking
Develop and apply new coping skills
Identify meaningful moral standards, values, and belief systems
Understand and express more complex emotional experiences
Form friendships that are mutually close and supportive
Establish a key aspect of identity
Meet the demands of increasingly mature roles and responsibilities
Renegotiate relationships with adults in parenting roles
Problems and Challenges Faced by Adolescents
Appearance
Attitude
Friends
Trust vs. Mistrust
Infancy stage where developing a sense of trust in the world and the people around us is crucial
Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt
Early childhood stage where developing a sense of autonomy and independence is important
Initiative vs. Guilt
Preschool years stage where developing a sense of initiative and purpose is key
Industry vs. Inferiority
Elementary school years stage where developing a sense of competence and industry is vital
Identity vs. Role Confusion
Adolescence stage where developing a strong sense of identity and figuring out who we are as individuals is crucial