capture our focus and takes us mentally to seemingly more interesting thoughts in different time and places
ME SELF
empirical
based on personal experiences
all personal experiences are acceptable to me self
connect with our reality in the present moment
SUBDIVISIONS OF ME SELF
MATERIAL SELF
SOCIAL SELF
SPIRITIUAL SELF
MATERIAL SELF
what we possess depicts who we are
things that you want will define you
tangible objects, people or places that carry the designation "my" or "mine"
How can we tell the entity of our self?
based on emotional investment
emotional attachment (connection)
SUBDIVISION OF MATERIAL SELF
BODILY SELF - physical entity
EXTRACORPOREAL (beyond the body) - extended self; psychological ownership
Self and Material Possession is Interconnected
Possession serves as symbolic function
Possessions also extend the self in time
People emotional responses to their possessions also attest to their importance to self
SOCIAL SELF
how we are regarded and recognized by others
we affiliate because we crave for recognition and status
RELATIONAL SELF - specific interpersonal relationships
SPIRITUAL SELF
inner self
psychological self
evaluate others based on the standard of the society
COMPONENTS OF SELF CONCEPT
CARL ROGERS
SELF CONCEPT
how some think about, evaluate, or perceive themselves
to be aware of oneself is to have a concept of oneself
is our personal knowledge of who we are
includes our knowledge of how we behave
develops more rapidly during early childhood and adolescence
continues to form and change overtime as we learn about our selve
THREE COMPONENTS
SELF-IMAGE
SELF-ESTEEM OR SELF-WORTH
IDEAL SELF
SELF-IMAGE
the way we see ourselves
SELF-ESTEEM OR SELF-WORTH
the value we place upon ourselves
IDEAL SELF
the self we would like to be
Self-image and Ideal Self are congruent
very difficult to achieve (SELF ACTUALIZATION)
Self-image and Ideal Self are not congruent
leads to discrepancy
leads to internal confusion
COGNITIVE DISSONANCE - prevents the achievement of self-actualization
AGE 2
children begin to different themselves from others
AGE 3-4
children understand that they are separate and unique selves
child's self-image is largely descriptive, based mostly on physical characteristics or concrete details
ABOUT 6
children can communicate what they want and needQs
starting to define themselves in terms of social groups
AGE 7-11
begin to make social comparisons and consider how they're perceived by others
begin to describe themselves in terms of abilities and not just concrete details
they realize that their characteristics exists on a continuum
AGE 12-13
pre-adolescent
a key period for self-concept
usually the basis for the self-concept for the remainder of one's life
influenced by success in areas they value and the responses of other valued to them
success and approval can contribute to greater self esteem and a stronger self-concept into adulthood
LEVEL OF CONCIOUSNESS
SIGMUND FREUD
Human personality is complex and has more than a single component.
It is composed of three elements:
ID
EGO
SUPEREGO
CONSCIOUSNESS
awareness and understanding on what is happening on its surrounding
help better understand ID, EGO and SUPEREGO
CONSCIOUS
includes our current thought; aware
PRE/SUBCONSCIOUS
contains memories that are not part of the current thought but can be brought if needed
UNCONSCIOUS
repressed thoughts; includes desire, impulses; unaware
freud believes that behavior and personality where derived from constant and unique interaction of conflict psychological forces that operate to our three levels of consciousness
SIGMUND FREUD
unconscious is the most important part of the mind
primary source of human behavior
influences our feelings, behavior, and judgment
PAST EXPERIENCES - are very powerful to manipulate our behavior
FREUDIAN SLIP
mistaken speech
putting unconscious into the conscious
negative thoughts are in unconscious
STRUCTURE OF PERSONALITY
ID
EGO
SUPERGO
ID
most primitive innate urges
sources of all psychic energy hence the ID is the primary component of personality
present from birth
entirely unconscious and includes instinctive and primitive behavior
driven by PLEASURE PRINCIPLES which strives for immediate gratification
disruptive behavior and socially unacceptable
PRIMARYPROCESS THINKING
primary part of personality
used instead of acting on dangerous or unacceptable urges
it forms mental images to substitute for an urge to diffuse tension and anxiety
image can take the form of dream, hallucination, fantasy, or delusion
EGO
develops from ID
ensure that the impulses of the ID can be expressed in an acceptable manner
functions in all levels of consciousness
responsible for dealing with reality
striving to satisfy ID"s desire in realistic and appropriate ways
satisfies through DELAYED GRATIFICATION
SECONDARY PROCESS THINKING
ego tries to find an object in the real world that matches the mental image created by the ID"s primary process