Generosity & humility: titled Omelora ( The one who does for the community)
Papa making the biggest donations to Peter's pence and St. Vincent de Paul
keep the pride from showing, because Papa said modesty was very important.
Loves his family: A love sip, he called it, because you shared the little things you loved with the people you loved
when the tea burned my tongue, it burned Papa's love into me
Papa deserved praise for not choosing to have more sons with another woman
White supremacist: Ifeoma called him a colonial product
He was gracious, in the eager-to-please way that he always assumed with the ... white religious.
We had to sound civilized in public, he told us; we had to speak English
Papa said that the parish priest in Abba was not spiritual enough. That was the problem with our people......You would never see white people doing that.
I cannot participate in a pagan funeral, but we can discuss with the parish priest and arrange a Catholic funeral.
Abusive: He picked up the missile and flung it across the room, toward Jaja. It missed Jaja completely, but it hit the glass étagerè, which Mama polished often.
Mama was slung over his shoulder like the jute sacks of rice
Papa was like a Fulani nomad......as he swung his belt at Mama, Jaja, and me, muttering that the devil would not win. Fulani nomads are herdsmen
Controlling: Once, Kevin told Papa I took a few minutes longer...so his huge palms left parallel marks on my face and ringing in my ears for days.
Because God has given you much, he expects much from you. He expects perfection
Papa liked order. It showed even in the schedules themselves, the way his meticulously drawn lines, in black ink, cut across each day,
Hypocrite: But what we Nigerians needed was not soldiers ruling us, what we needed was a renewed democracy. Fights for democracy but acts like a dictator