Sternberg's theory of love
Cards (8)
- All three components of love-intimacy, passion, and commitment-are absent. This describes most interpersonal relationships, which are simply casual interactions.
- Intimacy is the only component present. There is closeness, understanding, emotional support, affection, bondedness, and warmth. Neither passion nor commitment is present.
- Passion is the only component present. this is "love at first sight" a strong physical attraction and sexual arousal, without intimacy or commitment.
- Commitment is the only component present. Often found in long term relationships that have lost both intimacy and passion, or in an arranged marriage.
- Intimacy and passion are both present. Drawn to each other physically and bonded emotionally. They are not, however, committed to each other.
- Intimacy commitment is both present. This is a long term, committed friendship, often occurring in marriages in which physical attraction has died down but in which the partners feel close to each other and have made the decision to stay together.
- Passion and commitment are present without intimacy. This often leads to a whirlwind courtship in which a couple make a commitment without allowing themselves the time to develop intimacy. This kind of love does not usually last
- All three components are present in this "complete" love. it is easier to achieve it than to hold on to it.