The process by which we consider and respond to a threatening or challenging event
According to the World Health Organization, stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances
You are stressed if
Physical Therapist (pinch your palm particularly in between the thumb and index finger and you get hurt)
Psychologist (close your hands together and check the position of your thumbs - and having decision making issue)
Doctors (when there is chest pain like your heart is racing, headaches, dizziness, shaking or high blood pressure)
Stressor
Any event, situation, or external stimulus that causes a stress response in the body
Types of stressors
Catastrophes
Major life changes
Daily hassles
Daily hassles or the things we do everyday, such as waiting in line, dealing with traffic, accomplishing school work and doing household chores, are also stressful, especially when they pile up
Uplifts
Regular events in our lives that make us feel good, such as having enough sleep, being able to rest, maintaining positive relations with others, accomplishing a task
Uplifts seem to buffer the effects of daily hassles and contribute significantly to our well being. The more uplifts we experience, the lesser the strain produced by daily hassles
Each individual responds to stressors distinctively, in that an activity may be stressful for one but is simply a routine for another
Stress
Lies in the beholder. The experience and perception of stress varies from individual to individual
Stressors can also be ambient in that they may be imbedded in the environment, such as poverty, traffic, crowding, noise and air pollution
Culture can also set the manner in which stress is experienced and appraised by people. Different forms of racial discrimination and adapting to a new culture or the process of acculturation are linked to psychological distress
There seems to be a downward trend in having stress from early to late adolescence and that adolescent stress typically comes from life events, daily hassles and socio-cultural factors
The most common stressor for adolescents lies in their relationships, particularly stressors that involve relationships with parents and at school, while romantic-related concerns showed the lowest
Adolescent girls seem to be more affected by relationship-based stressors than their male counterparts
The most common concerns among Filipino youth respondents were centered on intra- and interpersonal conflicts, and their lack of resources, which sometimes even included those that provide for their basic needs
Older Filipino respondents revealed that their problems lie specifically in their peers as sources of negative influence, while the younger respondents expressed their concern about their parents' and older siblings' excessive drinking
Filipino respondents living in urban areas encountered problems that are future-related, while those from the rural areas appeared to be more apprehensive about their day-to-day needs
Other concerns of older Filipino respondents living in the city pointed toward rumor-mongering and unwanted pregnancies
Common sources of stress
Frustration
Internal conflict
Change
Pressure
When left unchecked, stress can undermine several facets of our lives, including impairment of task performance, interference in concentration, burnout, psychological problems and disorders, and physical illness
Post-traumatic growth
A positive personal change following a traumatic or undesirable event
Stressful circumstances in our lives also quench our thirst for challenge and stimulation
Exposure to stress prepares us to handle future stressors of similar nature, thereby augmenting our tolerance for stress
Constructive coping
Efforts to deal with stressful events that are judged to be healthful
Appraisal-focused coping
Changing the way we look at circumstances that we face
Our resilience is developed partly by learning how to dispute unrealistic beliefs and to replace them with more rational ones
Problem-focused coping
Squarely confronting and making an effort to solve stressful events
Problem-focused coping strategies
Engaging in systematic problem solving
Seeking help from others
Enhancing time management skills
Learning to be more assertive
Emotion-focused coping
Handling and managing our emotions well in response to stressful events
Emotion-focused coping strategies
Exercising
Doing relaxation exercises
Meditating
Releasing pent-up emotions
Enhancing emotional skills
Forgiving self and others
Redirecting attention to more productive endeavors
Problem-focused coping seems to be more effective than emotion-focused coping on a long term basis
Coping strategies that work well for adolescents
Thinking positively
Enhancing self-control
Seeking help from others
Consulting a counsellor or therapist
Using various coping strategies
The most common coping strategy cited by Filipino youth respondents was through seeking help and support from family, friends and other significant people in their lives
Older Filipino respondents and those living in urban areas were more inclined to ask help from their peers
Filipino respondents also shared that amid the problems that beset them, they typically draw strength from internal attributes, such as confidence in oneself and one's competencies, and belief in God