Their positions, their responsibilities to each other, and what happen when these go wrong are common themes of tragedy
Only 1/32 (Sophocles’ Philoctetes) surviving plays have no female characters
Tragedians frequently selected myths for their plays which involve gender conflict
Bacchae depicts a breakdown in these social codes, since the women of Thebes have abandoned their duties to their families to worship Dionysus
The ideal respectable Greek women was to live their lives inside the house, away from public view (unlikely that this was realistic for poorer women, who needed to work)
The bacchants have left their homes to live outside
In his opening speech, Dionysus describes the women as sitting on ‘bare rock under the green pine trees’ (38;29) - highlights the degree to which they have abandoned their inhibitions
This is emphasised in the 1st Messenger speech
While the Messenger describes the miracles they perform, they also show the negative consequences of women abandoning their position
e.g. some of the women are nursing wild animals, to replace the babies they have left (699-702; 589-92)
The image of them holding wolves or deer to their breast is eerie, and makes the audience think of the baby left behind
The idea that Bacchism can threaten family life is made explicit when the women snatch children from the homes of the villagers (754;628)
Women are meant to protect children, but the influence of Dionysus causes the maenads to disrupt families, including their own
While Pentheus thinks it’s wrong that the women are having sex, their actions do have an impact on their married lives
The maenadism of Bacchae relies on the breaking down of norms that society is founded on
It is also an exploration of the tensions in a patriarchal system
One could see Pentheus’ fate as a warning of either what can happen if women aren’t controlled properly, or of the dangers of excessively suppressing them
Oedipus the King presents a more positive depiction of gender relations, since Oedipus and Jocasta’s marriage is presented as one of mutual respect
Oedipus states he has a higher opinion of Jocasta that of the chorus of elders (700;770-1)
This overturned any assumption that the Greeks always thought women were inferior to men
Jocasta’s concerned for her husband’s wellbeing
The couple listen attentively to each other and speak with affection
Creon even comments that Oedipus echoes Homer’s Odyssey, where Odysseus tells the princess Nausicaa of the importance of like-mindedness in creating a perfect marriage
Nothing is better or stronger than when two people, like-minded in their thoughts, keep a house as husband and wife
Odyssey, 6.182-4
Odysseus is married to Penelope, and this relationship is a model of a successful marriage where the woman’s role is admired
The audience’s knowledge of Oedipus’ identity means that the depiction of a harmonious couple is tainted by horror, since we know they are mother and son
Oedipus' happy marriage, like his prosperous career, makes his fall from grace even more pitiful, as he discovers that his whole life has been based on lies
It is a deliberate stroke of irony that the happiest marriage in Greek tragedy is the one that never should have been allowed