Systematic desensitisation uses counter‐conditioning to help patients ‘unlearn’ their phobias, by creating a relaxation response instead of fear. The patient works with a therapist to create an anxiety hierarchy, ranking the phobic situation from least to most anxiety‐inducing. The patient is also taught relaxation strategies, such as breathing techniques, to help them remain calm when exposed to their fear. Finally, the patient works through their fear hierarchy, starting at the bottom, while trying to remain relaxed at each stage.