the main factor differentiating this theory from the others, is the idea of investment and it's influence on commitment - they are anything that could be lost if the relationship ends
intrinsic investments are resources we put directly into a relationship such as money or possessions or even unquantifiable resources such as energy and self-disclosures
extrinsic investments are resources not previously featured in the relationship, including possessions bought together, such as a car, children or mutual friends or shared memories (intangible)