When we are young we learn our moral standards through socialisation,which guides our behaviour
Most of the time people follow these moral standards,if we dont our self-esteem would suffer
Moral disengagement is when the moral system breaks downs,we ignore or turn off our moral standard temporarily so we can do things without feeling guilty
When our moral system is turned off,we convince ourselves the rules dont apply to us
Its a gradual process,using strategies little by little and start to feel less bad the more you go against our morals
Bullies use cognitive restructuring to change they way they think,they downplay their behaviour and may see it as 'toughening others up'
Bullies will also use language such as 'I was just joking',to justify their behaviour,social justification
Bullies will also compare their behaviour to things much worse so their behaviour seems less harmful
Bullies minimise their role in bullying,usually blaming the school for allowing the bullying to happen
The ringleaders of a group will blame the shift away from them and onto their friends,on-one is fully responsible
Bullies will tell themselves someone else is more to blame than they are
Bullies will ignore/distort the consequences of their actions by distancing themselves from the harm by;ignoring it,downplaying it or misinterpreting it
Bullies will find it easier to ignore the consequences when the victim isnt around and take advantage when victims hide their suffering
Bullies also dehumanise or blame the victim,they believe the victim is less human or more deserving of bullying
Bullies may see the victim as less valuable and less important
Bullies believe bullying isnt bad if the victim is seen as less popular or different