Complementarity may not be central to all longer-term relationships
A prediction of filter theory is that in the most satisfying relationships partners are complementary, ie one partner may have a need to be dominant and the other a need to be submissive
However, Markey et al found that lesbian couples of equal dominance were the most satisfied
Their sample of couples had been romantically involved for a mean time of more than 4½ years.
This suggests that similarity of needs rather than complementarity may be associated with long-term satisfaction, at least in some couples.