Costs and rewards are subjective, for example, rewards such as companionship, may be considered as rewarding for some but not as rewarding for others
What is considered as rewarding or costly in the early relationship may change as the relationship develops
A relationship where the rewards exceed the costs and is mutually beneficial will be maintained
CL; Comparison levels - amount of reward you believe you deserved to get:
Develops from our past relationships and we use this to compare with our current relationship rewards
Our past relationships feed into our expectations of our current norms, it is also influenced by our social norms
As we gain more experiences, our comparison levels change
CL ALT; Comparison levels of alternatives - do you believe you could gain greater rewards and fewer costs in another relationship:
We compare our rewards and costs in our current relationships compared to potential ones, e.g. my girlfriend is lovely but this new girl lives closer so I would save petrol money
SET predicts we will stay in our relationship as long as we believe it is more rewarding than alternatives
Relationships will succeed if:
Rewards exceed costs
Profit level is not higher in alternative relationships