1. Baby forms an association between the mother (a neutral stimulus) and the feeling of pleasure that comes with being fed (an innate unconditioned response)
2. At first, the baby feels comforted by food
3. Each time it is fed, the mother is also present (e.g. breast feeding)
4. It quickly associates the mother with the pleasure of being fed
5. Before long, the mother becomes a conditioned stimulus and also causes pleasure for the child
6. This means that the baby feels happier when the mother is near
7. This is the beginning of the formation of an attachment
Harlow demonstrated that contact comfort was more important than food in the development of an attachment, where the baby monkeys formed a primary attachment to the cloth-bound mother, regardless of which mother was dispensing milk
Brazleton et al emphasised the importance of interactional synchrony and reciprocity in the secure formation of attachments between a primary caregiver and infant - these are universal features of attachment
Attachments form not to the person who spends the most time with the infant, but rather the person who is most attentive to the infant and deals with their signals most skilfully
Interactional synchrony and reciprocity are both universal features of attachment and should be treated as such, as demonstrated by Feldman and Brazleton