1. Baby forms an association between the mother (a neutral stimulus) and the feeling of pleasure that comes with being fed (an innate unconditioned response)
2. At first, the baby feels comforted by food
3. Each time it is fed, the mother is also present (e.g. breast feeding)
4. It quickly associates the mother with the pleasure of being fed
5. Before long, the mother becomes a conditioned stimulus and also causes pleasure for the child
6. This means that the baby feels happier when the mother is near
7. This is the beginning of the formation of an attachment