Committed to an honest assessment of your own strengths and weaknesses
Recognize that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is more predictive of success than any particular theory, intervention, or technique
Have a basic curiosity and are open to learning
Have the interpersonal skills needed to establish good contact with other people, and you can apply these skills in the helping relationship
Genuinely care for the people you help, and this caring is expressed by doing what is in their best interest
Able to deal with a wide range of clients' thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
Realize that change is typically hard work, and you are willing to stay with clients as they go through with difficult process
Able to enter the world of your clients and to see it through their eyes rather than imposing your own vision of reality on them
Realize that clients often limit themselves through a restricted imagination of possibilities for your future
Willing to draw on a number of resources to enable clients to fulfill their goals
Flexible in applying strategies for change, and you are willing to adapt your techniques to the unique situation of each client
Show respect for clients whose ethnic or cultural background is different from your own by not fitting them into a preconceived mold
Challenge the biases and assumptions that you hold about individuals from particular groups and are committed to broadening your view and learning more about different cultural perspectives
Remain respectfully curious about all the clients you meet, and you actively engage with those who differ from you on the basis of race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, ability/disability, socioeconomic status, and religious background
Willing to speak up about the inequities that exist in society as they have negative impacts on your clients
Embrace your obligation as a social justice advocate to fight for the needs of those who are marginalized and oppressed and to empower them
Take care of yourself physically, mentally, psychologically, socially, and spiritually
Realize that personal growth is a lifelong journey, and you are committed to engaging in the self-reflection necessary to make changes in your personal life
Question life and engage in critical self-examination of your beliefs and values
Aware of your needs and motivations, and you make choices that are congruent with your life goals
Have established meaningful relationships with at least a few significant people