Two points on a wave are in phase if they are both at the same point of the wave cycle, they will have the same displacement and velocity and their phase difference will be a multiple of 360° (2π radians), they do not need the same amplitude, only the same frequency and wavelength.
The intensity of the fringes decreases from the central fringe, with bright fringes caused by constructive interference and dark fringes caused by destructive interference.
The formula for fringe spacing is w = sλD, where w is the fringe spacing, s is the slit separation, λ is the wavelength of light, and D is the distance between the screen and slits.
The formula for diffraction gratings is sin θ λ d = n, where d is the distance between the slits, θ is the angle to the normal, n is the order, and λ is the wavelength.
Increasing the slit width decreases diffraction and narrows the central maximum, while increasing the light wavelength increases diffraction and widens the central maximum.
The diffraction pattern for white light has a central white maximum with alternating spectra, with violet closest to the central maximum and red furthest away.