The different genders spend their leisure time differently - boys are more likely to be physical and girls are more likely to chat. The value of conversation is that is develops the linguistic and reasoning skills needed for learning at school, especially in understanding and writing in assessments. Generally, girls prefer to read whereas boys see this as a waste of time. Reading has been 'feminised" in our culture le.g. magazines with lots of text, mothers reading to children, topic of most fiction. Boys tend to lose interest in reading around 8 years of age.