For personal growth, an individual's concept of self (the way they see themselves) must be broadly equivalent to, or have congruence with, their ideal self (the person they want to be)
If too big a gap exists between the two selves, the person will experience a state of incongruence and self-actualisation will not be possible
1. Therapist provides the client with genuineness, empathy and unconditional positive regard
2. Aims to increase the person's feelings of self-worth, reduce the level of incongruence between the self-concept and the ideal self, and help the person become a more fully functioning person
Jeung is a student who has always dreamed of being a dancer, but her colleagues have pressured her to become a teacher instead, which she is not proud of