Where as Eric's masculinity is crude and imperfect, Gerald is a symbol for the refined, cultured masculinity of the upper class, despite being polite and charming, his misogyny is insidious, his behaviour towards women is manipulative and selfish showing even the most respectable men were corrupt, "she's had a long, exciting and tiring day - we were celebrating our engagement - she's obviously had as much as she can stand" (by speaking for her, symbolises how men stole women's voices, almost infantilises her, presents women as delicate and childlike, also alludes to female hysteria - invalidating her before she reveals his secrets, declarative "we were celebrating our engagement" - stakes his claim over her, objectifies her, reflects 1910s)