Remember was a sonnet so it was written like a Petrarchan sonnet that originally men wrote and performed
Something heroic about the way Rosetti presents relationships and sacrifice in remember
Using a sonnet to sound masculine
Rosetti looks forward to death for liberation into the spiritual realm as Ibsen is more concerned about the here and now
In remember death represents the absence of each other, but not their love
Impracticality of grieving when death is so natural and a part of life, Christianity and the afterlife as a comfort and their inevitable destination to Rosetti
What poem could Remember link to?
Up-hill, song, In the roundtower
"It will be too late to counsel then or pray" even men have no power against death
death is an equaliser at the end of life, hence why remember has an authoritative tone
Remember could also link into the idea that homemaking and children isn't the only thing women should leave as their legacy, but all they think too
poem from the perspective of dying rather than being left behind
asks her beloved to remember her when she is dead because that is all he will be able to do for her
The speaker assures the beloved that although she wants to be remembered it isn't necessary and all she wants is for him to be happy