A set of morals and beliefs that defines how we treat or behave with others and ourselves
Personality
The range of distinctive personal qualities and traits of an individual
Character
Who we actually are
Personality
Who we seem to be
Character
Mental and moral
Personality
Personal and physical
Character
Learned behavior
Character
Objective
Personality
Subjective
Character
Abstract traits of a person
Personality
Outer appearance and behavior of a person
Character
Remains the same
Personality
May change over time
Character
Not required validation of society
Personality
Required
Six Pillars of Character
Trustworthiness
Respect
Responsibility
Fairness
Caring
Citizenship
Trustworthiness
Work with little supervision, yet seek guidance as needed
Being honest, reliable, and ethical in all dealings
Refuse to lie, cheat, deceive, manipulate, exploit or take advantage of others
Respect
Value and honor all people
Respect the dignity, privacy and freedom of all
Responsibility
Show initiative. Pay attention to detail. Pursue excellence
Being accountable. Fulfilling commitments, persevering and getting the job done
Strive to improve abilities, learn new skills and take on broader responsibilities
Being loyal
Fairness
Being free of bias, just, without favoritism or prejudice
Use tact and courtesy
Share knowledge, ideas and skills with others
Caring
Strive for harmonious, mutually beneficial relationships
Show kindness and sensitivity to the feelings of others
Express gratitude
Show concern for others
Take time to help others
Be kind. Be kind. Be kind
Citizenship
Understand and contribute to society
Taking care of resources
Pursue life-long learning
Volunteer without expectation of recognition or reward
Be a role model and mentor to other individual
Levels of moral development
Pre-conventional (4-7 years old)
Conventional (7-11 years old)
Post-Conventional (12 years old above)
Stage 1: Punishment-Avoidance and Obedience
Pre-conventional (4-7 years old)
Stage 2: Mutual Benefit
Pre-conventional (4-7 years old)
Stage 3: Social Approval
Conventional (7-11 years old)
Stage 4: Law and Order
Conventional (7-11 years old)
Stage 5: Social Contract
Post-Conventional (12 years old above)
Stage 6: Universal Ethical Principle
Post-Conventional (12 years old above)
Reasons that prevent good character
Heredity and early childhood experience
Modeling by important adults & older youth
General physical and social environment
Peer influence
Communications media
Content taught in the schools
Specific situations and roles
Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another.
Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures
Treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self-improvement and success
Stop thinking and feeling as if you're a failure
How can others accept you if YOU can't accept YOU?
Self-acceptance is NOT just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty.
The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes
Don't feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed
Self-improvement is a one day at a time process.
Dilemma
Situation where a person is forced to choose between two or more conflicting options, neither of which is acceptable
Moral dilemma
Situation where a person is forced to choose between two or more conflicting options, NEITHER of which resolves the situation in a morally accepted manner
Features of moral dilemma
Personal dilemma
Organizational dilemma
Structural dilemma
Personal dilemma
Imagine you are a Barangay Captain of your village. You are known to be strict and model of every rules you implement. One day, you found out that your sibling is one of the primary suspect in the recent murder. Will you make your strict rules in handling the situation or consider your family member?