The thanatologic philosophy dictates that the family members are free to choose if and when they wish to be with the patient who is dying. DO NOT raise a barrier because of "visitation hours"
Allow young children to visit a dying patient when the patient is able to communicate
Be willing to listen to family members' complaints about a patient's care and their feelings about the patient
Help family members learn to interact with the dying patient
Allow family members to help with as much or as little patient care as they desire
When the family becomes fatigued with care activities, relieve them from their duties so they can get the rest and support they need. Refer them to resources for meals and lodging
Support the act of shared grieving among patient and family. Provide privacy when preferred. DO NOT discourage open expression of grief between patient and family
As the time of death approaches, assist family members to stay in communication with the dying patient through short visits, caring silence, touch, and telling the patient of their love for him or her
After death, assist the family with decision making, such as selection of a mortician, transportation of family members, and collection of the patient's belongings