Oakley criticises Young and Willmott's view that the family is now symmetrical. Argues there claims are exaggerated. Although Young and Willmott found that husbands 'helped' out their wives once a week, this could include taking the children for a walk or making breakfast on occasion. For Oakley, this is hardly convincing evidence of symmetrical. She found evidence of husbands helping in the home but no evidence of symmetry. 15% of husbands had a level of participation in housework, only 25% had participation in childcare.